Dear Lady

Re: He wants me to travel over to come see him.
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A lady inboxed me telling me of a guy who she met on facebook, and how he's asking her to come over so they can meet.

As a lady, be careful before traveling to meet a Man you've never met before and hardly know.

I know you're in Love (his online personality has charmed you)

I know Relationship is hungrying you to start and maintain.

And you want to get Married

But you need to apply wisdom (not just emotions) in this case where distance separates you and a guy you've never met before and hardly know very well.

1,2,3 months of online chatting and sweet talking each other should not make you rush inside bus and be traveling to another state to meet a Man.

Do you have extra life in your bag?

Ideally, the guy should do the chasing, he should be the first to travel down to meet the lady.

The Man should not put the task of traveling on the Lady especially when they're yet to be very well acquainted.

And if for any reason you decide to still travel, please let your family and friends know where you're going and who you're going to meet (with pictures and all). Also let the guy know that people know.

And if possible, independently (by yourself) plan ahead where you'll stay when you arrive there.

Many ladies have been kid.n.apped, tor.tued, traffi.cked, rap.ed and ki.lled using this trick.

Many.

Don't be Desperate, especially when it's a stranger we're talking about.

Think, Pray and Plan.